Baby 1st's and birthday. My week that was

My Week that was captured 

Weaning week 2 // 1st trolley ride // 1st restaurant high chair

Slate top table gentle reminder // oops! Tween's Birthday card // cake, flowers, mulled wine birthday treats 

I'm linking in with The Week that was captured @ Make do and push

Baby toys on a shoe string

With the arrival of Baby R I thought it would be a good opportunity to put all my time working in early years to his advantage and with Christmas being an expensive time with a Teenager and Tween putting in their 'I really need one of these' requests,  I'm not going to be spending  lots of cash buying baby toys, it's not like Baby R has any burning desire for anything in particular. Instead, I've put together some heuristic, natural playthings I've watched babies play with over the years. He's got a few toys in his stocking but I'm also making him a few treasure baskets.

For those who aren't familiar with the term heuristic play, it means letting babies (and toddlers as well as children) explore an object, these are usually real, everyday items, stimulating the senses and creating a whole bunch of learning. I've been collecting treasure basket items for the last year, ready to put them to the test when the time came and now he's sitting up, I've just this week introduced Baby R to his first one. At the moment, his favourite items are the shiny paper and wooden bead necklace, he's also fascinated watching the discovery bottle. 

Here's my idea to help you curb the big Christmas spend. I found the basket in Store 21 for £5.99, it'd make a lovely present filled with a few things, ikea is fantastic. You don't need to go mad for your first one, too much will overwhelm them. Just keep replacing the damaged items regularly and they'll never get bored. 

I've pinned some more ideas on my
Baby Play Ideas Pinterest board which I'm adding to all the time,  feel free to pop over and pin or follow. 

• Foil blanket,   The type you find in a 1st aid box.

• Ribbons,   most things go straight in his mouth and I can wash these. I've even hung some from his car seat to exercise his epic swiping and newly acquired grabbing skills to get that pincer grip working. 

• Coasters    Yup, you heard it right, coasters. They feel slippy, make a noise when banged together and make brilliant Frisbees! 

• Ball    Baby R is lucky to have a treasure basket wise God mother who buys him little presents for his stash. This one has colour as well as being really tactile. A juggling ball will have the same effect, just check for damage when teeth arrive. 

• Discovery bottle I make these using small fizzy drink or water bottles, filling them with water, sequins and glitter for visual ones and rice and feathers for noisy.  

• Mirror  Baby R loves looking at his self! 

• Wooden bowl the feel and sound of it when the wooden necklace hits it, fascinates him. He also likes the noise made from banging the coasters on top. As well as touching and exploring it it his hands and mouth.

• Flannel for touch and another item that's washable which is essential as it always ends up in his mouth. 

• Onyx bangle this is hard and cold to touch so quite soothing on his gums. I'll be getting rid of this one though as soon as his teeth come through. 

• Wooden bead necklace any bead necklace will do. (Always check that it's not damaged or has any loose beads, also avoid any with thin string visable as it could be damaged with tiny teeth) I dangle this above his head when he's lying on the floor and he tries swiping for it. 

Use your imagination then just sit (very close by!) and watch. Don't interfere too much, the idea is your baby plays at their own will and agenda.

Important information

Always supervise a baby when using a treasure basket, the idea is to let the baby take the lead and explore the items in their own time and way without interference from an adult however, never, ever leave them unattended. sit close by, they'll want to check in with you and will get maximum developmental benefit knowing you're there. Check items for damage before every play session. . 

No body told me about the 4 month sleep regression!

I can totally understand how sleep depravation is a form of torture and if baby R wasn't so utterly adorable I'd be seriously wondering what I'd done to deserve such a battering. As I type I've got the hopeful sense that we've just got over the worst of the 4 month sleep regression, to which the only medicine & saving grace was being greeted by his gummy grin every morning.

I follow the Wonder Weeks to track any developemental leaps Baby R goes through and we were armed and ready for the dreaded leap 4 (a titanic 31 fussy days) but nothing prepared us for the sleep regression. 

I've had 2 poor sleepers already and felt we'd cracked it finally with number 3 but after sleeping through (the official line is 5 hour stretches which we achieved  a few times) Baby R decided he needed to check in with me and fill up every 1 -2 hours. 

As an eternal optimist I've been trying to focus on all the amazing things he's accomplished in the last 25 days rather than fret on the extra wrinkles and bags I've aquired! 

Here goes

1 he's now grabbing his toes 

2 he can roll to his side 

3 lots of giggles at play time 

4 splashing in the bath with his hands

5 sticking his tongue out trying to copy raspberrys

We're still, however,  working on the no cry car journey. 

With love from lovely Devon

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